December. An interesting month, for sure. While I find myself mostly jovial and excited for all the ensuing celebrations, emotion can also quickly turn to sadness when I see all the people suffering this time of year. I cannot pass a ‘giving tree’ (the trees with needy children’s wishes attached) without opening crying, watching TV means I will need numerous Kleenex, knowing I will see commercials with military families sending each other holiday love, and being aware of the number of people around the world who are not waking up in a warm home, deciding what to make for breakfast, and feeling loved makes me feel sometimes helpless.
I have learned over time that the only way for me to overcome the inevitable holiday weepiness is to first, allow it to happen. Feelings are a good thing- I have finally learned to embrace that. However, after letting the tears flow, I have to find a plan of action. Sitting around and feeling sorry for others doesn’t help me get ‘unstuck’. So, in case any of you dear readers find yourself in a similar holiday situation, I am providing a few lovely ways to ‘give’ and get weeping relief in return.
1) Check out Toys for Tots, or one of your local ‘giving trees.’ I love these trees- you get to choose the young person you are going to play Santa for, and find the toy he/she has asked for. When they wake up Christmas morning, some very special children get to be surprised with their wish granted.
2) Choose thoughtful gifts from an organization called Nest. I am personally involved in this group, so I am biased, but I do think it is a fabulous way to give a great gift, while also helping others in need, as the proceeds benefit women artisans in poverty situations. Check it out at: www.buildanest.com.
3) Choose to gift yourself by sponsoring a woman from a war torn nation through Women for Women International. www.womenforwomen.org
4) Check out www.Donorschoose.org.
Above all, this year, I am especially aware of the fact that we never get to fully know what is happening in another person’s life. Simply being authentically present and genuine in our interactions with others goes a long way. Let’s all practice assuming the intentions of others are good, and treating all with that respect. Just saying “I am here for you if you need me” and truly meaning it is the greatest gift a friend can give. A little love goes a long long way.
Wishing you all the best during one of my favorite months.




Bailey’s dinosaur hat only stayed on for a few minutes. I will try to find a picture of it at some point…she was a very excited dinosaur.

