Archive for June, 2009

the end.

First came the tearful phone call from my sister early one morning that relayed the sad message, “John Madden is retiring.”  It felt like the end to a childhood tradition.  No more falling asleep on cold autumn days to bushy eyebrows and nonsensical white TV marker thing, and not to mention, the soothing lullaby of John’s booming voice.

A while later came another call- “They’re tearing down Giants Stadium.”  Ugh.  Doesn’t mean much to people who didn’t grow up with it, but to the rest of us…down comes a place filled with memories of concerts, games, and again, a childhood tradition.

I recently heard the announcement that a ‘new’ Footloose is in the works, with Zac Efron as Ren.  Initial reactions after dancing (by myself, in the kitchen) the “footloose dance” from ages past were 1) I cannot believe I am old enough to witness a ‘remake’ and 2) Zac Efron will never be as cool as Kevin Bacon.  I believe I actually scoffed out loud at the idea.

We all know where this is leading.  June 25, 2009.  Car radio tells me that Michael Jackson has died.  No, I didn’t know him personally, no, I don’t listen to his music every single day (like Bruce or something), yes, I watched him become stranger and stranger as time wore on.  But come on….Michael Jackson is dead?  

I remember putting the Thriller album on the record player, I saw Captain Eo in 3-D in 1986, I emulated dance moves throughout my life, I even danced to “Billy Jean is not my lover” in the middle of a circle at my wedding.  I cry every time I hear “Man in the Mirror,” and I will never stop loving A-B-C and other early hits.  I’ve seen the VH1 Jackson 5 documentary about 12 times, and I don’t even want to get into the conversations my college roommates and I frequently had about ‘MJ.’

I absolutely love music and dancing, and no matter how odd MJ became, watching him perform in any context was simply spell-binding.  To be that talented is something at which I can only marvel.  

Yesterday it happened again…I felt old.  I felt like a chapter of my personal history had closed.  I guess that is why I’m so sad MJ has passed on.

For all the Farrah lovers out there- my condolences to you as well.

And for those of you wondering…yes…we still own the vinyl Thriller album.  It was curiously hidden wayyyyy back in my sister’s closet.  Sister- have anything to say about that?  I guess it is technically yours, but…

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with open heart

STH71576Summer Soltice…First day of “Summer”…Sun shining in the heart:)

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Just a few pictures…

I can’t get enough of the colors in these roses.

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A symbol of life here with two rambunctious pups- 

STH71572the frog once stood in tree pose, peacefully…

 

I have a feeling this mischievous face could be behind the constant mayhem…

157What would life be without silly, love filled, chaos?

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attitude is everything…

I recently read that upon being asked what was the most important question for a human being to answer, Albert Einstein responded, “Is the universe friendly or not?”

Seems simple enough.  

As we all know, every human at some point or another will struggle with life’s challenges.  Some may be ‘no big deal,’ some may be a huge deal, and ultimately, as observers, we may never know when another is in that sea of challenge.  There is no changing the hardships each of us must endure.  What we can change, however, is our attitudes and reactions towards them.

Here’s where the subtle beauty of Einstein’s philosophical question comes to light.  As soon as you, the individual, has decided whether or not you see the universe as friendly, you have set the foundation for all your reactions to events throughout your life.

If the universe is friendly, life happens for reasons, you have lessons to learn, and you open yourself to the wonder of everyday.  If, however, the universe is not friendly, everything happens to you.  You are no longer an active participant in the unfolding of Great Mystery, but rather, the victim of life’s cruelty.  

I think contentment in the small things, the everyday things, helps to cultivate that friendly universe.  It certainly eases any negative reactions that want to creep into any particular moment.  

And, by the way, (just a little plug here for yoga), a yoga practice clears away much of the negativity, allowing the individual to live with a friendly universe.  Like always, it is a choice.  What do you think?  What is your universe?  Friendly?  Or a malicious being with a purpose of bothering you?

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if you love your dog…

Anyone who has a dog companion knows they are the most wonderful friends to have around.  We also know how fascinating it is to watch their behavior, and to learn more about their habits as pack animals.  If you love your dog, you might want to check out this:

http://www.wolfcenter.org/education/wolfbehavior.html

Incredible creatures- both the wild wolves, and the domesticated descendants- our pet dogs.

 

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mental sunshine

“Mental sunshine will cause the flowers of peace, happiness, and prosperity to grow upon the face of the Earth.  Be a creator of mental sunshine.”

-Graffiti on a wall in Berkeley, California

STH71568If you are ever having difficulty imagining “mental sunshine” just picture this pup’s face and hair staring at you throughout your day.  Since Bailey’s horrific haircut when we discovered she has 4 cowlicks on the top of her head, her hair has looked like an old man with a comb-over.  Hopefully such imagery will provide you with the ‘mental sunshine’ you need to smile throughout your day.

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GOOD MORNING!

I do not think I have the talent to fully express the exuberance with which young Bailey wakes me in the wee hours of the morning.  I’m still absorbing it myself.

While Jersey is always, and was always, quite excited to begin her day, her more cautious and ‘polite’ nature keeps her from jumping on me before my eyes have opened.  She waits, perched close enough to me so that I can hear her tail wagging in anticipation, but not so close as to bother me.  The moment I open one eye, she’s ready.

Bailey, however, or ‘The Bailey Monster,’ as I call her, is a little more ferocious with her morning greeting.  Now that the sun starts his job around 4 am, Bailey can hardly contain her self past 4:07.  Without warning, I find my head being plastered to my pillow with two paws strategically holding it in place for her tongue to assault me.  I don’t know whether she thinks she’s cleaning me, welcoming me to the day, or just being playful, but she gets her little tongue moving like something I didn’t know was possible.  At the same time, her body performs with equal excitement- quivering and wiggling from head to tail.  Once I am able to pry her off my face and put her on the floor, she starts running in small circles, the level of intensity ever increasing to that point in which she inevitably either crashes into something or manages to levitate all 4 paws and end up sprawled on the floor, completely unfazed.

Every morning.  This happens every morning.  Her entire being screams “HEY LADY!  THE SUN CAME UP AGAIN!  THIS IS THE BEST THING IN THE WORLD!  YOU ARE WASTING IT!  GET UP!  CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?  IT HAPPENED AGAIN!  WE GET TO HAVE ANOTHER DAY TOGETHER!  IT IS TIME TO PLAY!  TODAY IS GOING TO BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE!”

In all honestly, while a touch too early, not a bad attitude with which to begin a day.  Thanks, Bailey:)

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GOOD MORNING!!!

I do not think I have the talent to fully express the exuberance with which young Bailey wakes me in the wee hours of the morning.  I’m still absorbing it myself.

While Jersey is always, and was always, quite excited to begin her day, her more cautious and ‘polite’ nature keeps her from jumping on me before my eyes have opened.  She waits, perched close enough to me so that I can hear her tail wagging in anticipation, but not so close as to bother me.  The moment I open one eye, she’s ready.

Bailey, however, or ‘The Bailey Monster,’ as I call her, is a little more ferocious with her morning greeting.  Now that the sun starts his job around 4 am, Bailey can hardly contain her self past 4:07.  Without warning, I find my head being plastered to my pillow with two paws strategically holding it in place for her tongue to assault me.  I don’t know whether she thinks she’s cleaning me, welcoming me to the day, or just being playful, but she gets her little tongue moving like something I didn’t know was possible.  At the same time, her body performs with equal excitement- quivering and wiggling from head to tail.  Once I am able to pry her off my face and put her on the floor, she starts running in small circles, the level of intensity ever increasing to that point in which she inevitably either crashes into something or manages to levitate all 4 paws and end up sprawled on the floor, completely unfazed.

Every morning.  This happens every morning.  Her entire being screams “HEY LADY!  THE SUN CAME UP AGAIN!  THIS IS THE BEST THING IN THE WORLD!  YOU ARE WASTING IT!  GET UP!  CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?  IT HAPPENED AGAIN!  WE GET TO HAVE ANOTHER DAY TOGETHER!  IT IS TIME TO PLAY!  TODAY IS GOING TO BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE!”

In all honestly, while a touch too early, not a bad attitude with which to begin a day.  Thanks, Bailey:)

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a bunny friend

on my retreat from

hustle bustle

i found myself lying in a meadow

face to face

eye to eye

with bunny no bigger than my hand,

chewing her breakfast

confidently,

nonchalantly.

present enough to hear

her laughter,

i listened.

“you fool,” she smiled

“stop your search and be.”

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