January 8- A day like any other, except it is Bailey’s first birthday. I was considering what I could do to make her day special, but seeing as how she spends everyday enjoying time outdoors, eating her favorite treats, getting quality belly rubs, and taking numerous naps, I didn’t know what could make it better. Then I felt a bit silly trying to plan a special day for a puppy. Suddenly, I realized it was not silly at all, as I am deeply grateful for her life and her friendship. She teaches me daily a most important lesson: I love you, you love me, and that is all that matters right now. What if that could become the mantra of all people? I love you, you love me, and that is all that matters right now.
We live constantly surrounded by news of war, thoughts of hatred, and witness to despicable atrocities. Truly, when one stops to think about it, the amount of pain in our world is downright depressing. Between the global pains of war and abuse to all of creation, and one’s personal journey which is inevitably filled with setbacks, it seems like sadness should be the pervasive force in life.
Last night I saw a deeply disturbing bit about the garbage mass swirling in the North Pacific Ocean. Our wasteful habits have created a mass of garbage twice the size of Texas in the middle of the ocean. Twice the size of Texas. Bits and pieces of this mass have started to make their way to the beaches of Hawaii- a plastic sand of sorts. Sounds like a good day at the beach. If you enjoy seafood, then you should know that as this mass of garbage sits under the sun, it’s toxic waste is seeping into our waterways, sure to be gobbled up by the very fish you enjoy. Yummy. I can’t help but wonder how we, as individuals and the group, have strayed so far from our centers, have become so distant from our consciences, that we continue to add to these problems. When will we decide our actions are connected to the whole? If this isn’t a visual reminder to realize our connection to our home, then I am at a loss to know what is. As I turned off the TV, sad, up came my Bailey to nuzzle and remind me- I love you, you love me, and that is all that matters.
With all the negativity surrounding us, it can be difficult to stay positive. We may feel that the little things we do don’t matter much. On the contrary, we can consider the words of Margaret Mead- “Don’t think that a small group of awakened individuals cannot change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” In order to start changing the world, we begin by changing our own patterns of thought. Starting with all the creatures (people, animals, plants, what have you) we meet we can simply say “I love you, you love me, and that is all that matters right now.”
In this way, gratitude can become the norm, the heart may find space for wonder, and light will trickle into life and allow us all to smile.
Through it all, everyday, Bailey lets me know- I love you, you love me, and that is all that matters. So here’s to you, my silly Bailey Monster. Enjoy your day of birth- I am so grateful for your life, and for the privilege of having your life intertwined with my own. May you eat all the cheese you like and then pass out on our bed with your sister.
